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The Psychic’s Guide to Decision-Making (When Both Options Sound Terrible)




We’ve all been there. Standing at a crossroads, looking left and right, and thinking, “Honestly… both of these roads look like a bad idea.”


It’s the stuff adulting nightmares are made of:

  • Stay in the stable-but-soul-sucking job, or leap into the unknown with no guarantee of a parachute?

  • Stick it out in the relationship that’s “fine” but not fire, or face the awkward silence of being single again?

  • Move cities for an opportunity… or stay where life is comfortable but slightly stale?


When logic runs you in circles and pros-and-cons lists turn into emotional whack-a-mole, it’s time to tap into a deeper GPS: your intuition.


Here’s how I, as a psychic (and professional asker-of-angels), approach messy decision-making — and how you can too.


1. Forget "Right" or "Wrong" — Focus on Alignment


One of the biggest traps we fall into is thinking every decision has a “right” answer and a “wrong” answer. Spoiler alert: Life’s messier (and more magical) than that.


When I tune in psychically — whether for myself or clients — I'm not asking, "Which choice is 100% perfect?" I’m asking: Which choice aligns more with your soul’s growth and happiness right now?


Sometimes, both options are challenging because you're meant to grow through the decision — not because you're doomed either way. (Your soul loves a good plot twist. Your brain… not so much.)


2. Use Your Body Like a Compass


Psychic insight isn’t always about “seeing the future” — it’s often about feeling energy in the present.


Here’s a simple trick:

  • Imagine yourself fully choosing Option A.

  • Notice how your body reacts. Tension? Excitement? Nausea?

  • Now imagine fully choosing Option B.

  • Again, watch what your body says before your mind jumps in.


Your intuition often speaks through the body first: lightness = expansion. Heaviness = contraction.Neither feeling means “good” or “bad” — it just gives you data about what your energy is doing.


(And if both options make you feel like curling into a burrito of doom? Keep reading.)


3. Call In a Third Option (There Usually Is One)


Here’s something your guides love to remind you: When it feels like "Option A or B" — there is often a sneaky Option C you're not seeing yet.

Ask yourself (or your angels, if you work with them):

  • Is there a path I haven’t considered yet?

  • What would a third solution look like?


Sometimes the best move isn’t either choice — it’s a totally different doorway you didn’t realize was cracked open.


(Angels are experts at unconventional solutions. Never underestimate a cosmic plot twist.)


4. Trust That Temporary Discomfort Doesn't Mean Permanent Doom


Psychically, when I tune into people’s decisions, I often see this:Fear of temporary discomfort masquerading as a fear of permanent mistake.


But here's the real tea: growth always has a stretch zone.Feeling scared doesn’t mean you're doing it wrong. It often means you’re on the brink of something powerful.


The key is tuning into the quality of the discomfort:

  • Is it “I’m scared because this challenges me”?

  • Or “I’m uneasy because this truly shrinks me”?


Your soul knows the difference. Quiet down and it’ll tell you.


5. Final Step: Ask Your Future Self


When all else fails, I use this simple but magic trick:Imagine your future self — 6 months, 1 year, even 5 years down the road.Which choice would they be grateful you made?


Not the choice that kept things neat and tidy — the choice that built the life they’re living.

When you choose from your future self's wisdom, you’re not escaping fear — you’re expanding into who you’re becoming.


And that's real psychic power: living today from the wisdom of your tomorrow.



Messy choices are part of the human adventure.There’s no "perfect," no "failure," and no spirit guide up there wagging a finger at you if you take the scenic route.


You’re learning. You’re growing. You’re doing it right — even when it feels chaotic.


And if you ever feel lost between two less-than-dreamy options? Just remember: you’re never deciding alone. Your intuition, your angels, and your future self are all on your team.


Feeling stuck at a crossroads? Let’s tune in together."


👉 Book a psychic reading or an angel session and get the clarity your soul’s been asking for.



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